Is it normal to feel many different emotions after a cancer diagnosis?
Yes. Cancer can bring up a wide range of emotions you are not used to dealing with, and all of them are normal.
Just as cancer affects your physical health, it can stir up strong feelings and make emotions you already had seem more intense. These feelings may change daily, hourly, or even minute to minute. This is true whether you are in treatment, finished with treatment, or a friend or family member of someone with cancer.
The values you grew up with often shape how you cope. Some people feel they need to stay strong, while others lean on loved ones, ask for help from counselors, or turn to their faith. Whatever you decide, it helps to do what is right for you and to try not to compare yourself with others.
If painful feelings do not get better and start to get in the way of daily life, talk with your doctor, because this may be depression, which can be treated. And if you ever have thoughts of suicide, dial 911 in an emergency or call, text, or chat 988 to reach the 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline.
Want the full picture? Read our complete explanation: Feelings When You Have Cancer
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