Progressive Relaxation
A gentle head-to-toe practice of noticing and releasing tension, adapted for people in treatment.
What it is
Progressive relaxation (sometimes called progressive muscle relaxation) is a practice of moving attention slowly through the body, noticing tension, and letting it soften. It is one of the relaxation techniques described by the NIH's National Center for Complementary and Integrative Health as a way to support relaxation and reduce feelings of stress.
The classic version involves briefly tensing each muscle group before releasing it. During cancer treatment, tensing can sometimes be uncomfortable — around a port, a surgical site, or sore joints. The version below is a gentler "notice and release" adaptation that skips the tensing entirely. Use whichever suits your body, and skip any area that hurts.
A gentle version
Find a comfortable position, lying down or well supported in a chair. Take two or three slow breaths, then move your attention slowly through the body, spending a few relaxed breaths at each stop:
- Feet and legs. Notice how they feel against the bed or floor. With each out-breath, let them feel a little heavier.
- Hips and lower back. Let the support beneath you take their weight. Nothing to hold.
- Belly. Let it be soft. Let the breath move it gently.
- Hands and arms. Uncurl the fingers if they are curled. Let the arms rest completely.
- Shoulders. These carry a lot. Let them drop away from the ears, even a few millimeters.
- Jaw and face. Unclench the teeth. Let the tongue rest. Smooth the forehead.
- The whole body. Rest for a few breaths in the feeling of being supported.
If your mind wanders — it will — that is not failure. Just return to wherever you left off, or simply to the breath.
When it helps
People use this before scans, during long infusions, in the evening to unwind, or in bed as part of settling toward sleep. If lying still with your eyes closed increases anxiety rather than easing it, it is fine to keep your eyes open, shorten the practice, or choose something else — gentle breathing or quiet music may fit better.
This is supportive wellness content, not medical treatment. If tension, pain, or anxiety are persistent, please talk with your healthcare team — those are treatable, and your team wants to know.